My boyfriend fingered me to primal times. 2 hours. quickly and fetser. but it did not hurt. only at the end did suddenly hurt and at home I have a little bleeding. and a day later he was again. and when he has his finger reingesteckt, I realized the ghet it much easier way than if my hymen was gone. but it hurt so we left off. it may be that there now as a sore is the hurts and needs to heal first? I still have my hymen or not?